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What Lessons did Miss America Teach Me?
Suggestions to Boost self-esteem
When I first saw her, I was impressed by how well together she was: beautiful, poised, gracious, kind, well-spoken woman shining on the stage. What else would you expect from Miss America?
I met Teresa Scalnan, Miss America 2011, during the leadership conference where she was the master of ceremonies. Despite the celebrity status, Teresa is a sweet and down-to-earth girl. We started talking, and during our conversation she shared a little bit of her story.
After winning the beauty pageant, she got married, had a baby and everything was going well, until she found out that her husband started cheating on her. A bit later, she discovered that he was cheating on her while she was pregnant..
I couldn’t believe my ears. Cheating on a woman is just not within my map of the world. But how could someone cheat on Miss America?!
She just smiled and said, “If a man wants to cheat, it doesn’t matter whether his wife is a beauty queen or not. That’s just who he is.”
Then she continued, “He used to make comments that I was only pretty with a makeup on, and was accusing me of being fat.”
Cheating was bad enough. But being called fat, carrying his baby? That was just beyond me. The…
