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How to Make a Great Impression on a First Date?

Practical tips on how to ensure a man you like calls you back after the first date.

Anna Simpson
3 min readOct 8, 2019
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Dress, heals, matching purse, makeup, perfume, smile! Check! You are ready for a date with a man you like. How to make it a successful date, so he will call back?

“We had such a great time. We talked for hours. He was very engaging. But he never called back.” Many women struggle with this problem.

What went wrong? How to really connect with a man, so he wants to go on a second and third date, and potentially build a relationship with you? How to really captivate a man’s attention and trigger his heart, so he craves your company?

Just a little disclaimer, it has nothing to do with beauty, sexy body, your IQ, youth, sense of humour, and other appealing outside attributes.

The most common problem why a man doesn’t call after the first date is because he wasn’t emotionally connected with a woman he was with. He might have found her interesting and beautiful, and charming, and smart, but his emotional centres weren’t touched.

Quite often, we, women, treat a date as a potential “one”. We automatically evaluate if he matches our standards, and fits our vision in terms of marriage, family, kids, cats, etc.

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Anna Simpson
Anna Simpson

Written by Anna Simpson

Helping people discover, articulate, and monetise their messages and stories, so they can get paid for who they are. www.anna-simpson.com/book

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