How Serious are You About Creating Your Dream Love Life?

Anna Simpson
3 min readJun 4, 2019

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It really frustrates me when I see beautiful, amazing, capable women, who are not happy in their love life…

As a relationship coach, who passionately believes, every woman can and should be loved and cherished in her personal life, I see the potential and the big picture for every woman who is single or who is in a toxic relationship.

The stories vary but the underlying problem remains: these women have a poor self-image, they have self-esteem issues, they are unaware of their limiting beliefs and they don’t really believe they can have a dream relationship, so they either settle for less, or put up with being alone.

Not so long ago, I was one of those women, who was constantly attracting drama tantrums, being unhappy and often times with a broken heart. I was trying hard to fix the outside circumstances and taking action by changing boyfriends, but nothing was working.

I ended up attracting different men but the same problems would re-emerge after some time. The end result, I wasn’t unfulfilled. I was frustrated and became very close to just giving up on love and focusing on my career.

It is absolutely true: you can change your partner, your job, your place of residence, but the same experiences will perpetuate themselves until you change your mind and what you believe about yourself.

I decided to take a different approach. I started addressing my inner beliefs what I thought was true about men and relationships.

I caught myself at the thought that all great men are taken: they are either married, in relationships or gay.

So, although I wanted to build a loving relationship with a great man, who would adore, cherish and love me unconditionally, deep inside I didn’t believe such men were available to me.

Unconsciously, my inner belief “all great men are taken” was creating my reality. I would either meet and fall for men who were in relationships, or I would attract men who were not ready to settle down.

Once, I transformed that underlying limitation that was literally shaping my reality, I started to see more and more options became available to me.

The turning point for me was to transition from lack mindet to abundance mindset. It is amazing how you grow and expand: once you become more, you are able to see me.

That allowed me to attract and marry the man of my dreams

It all starts from addressing those beliefs that control everything in your life.

Relationships and love life just like any other area of life requires an intentional approach.

How serious are you about improving your relationships? How committed are you about improving your self-image? Are you ready to get help from someone who has been in your shoes before but managed to create a transformation? Are you willing to model their behaviour and their action steps?

If yes, then you are much closer to creating your dream relationships that the rest of women. If you are willing to get someone who can see the big picture for you and help you get through your limitations, then click here.

It is time to stop loneliness and pain. You can create love and happiness, you just need to know how. If you are committed, the world will be committed to brining to life your desire as well

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Anna Simpson
Anna Simpson

Written by Anna Simpson

Helping people discover, articulate, and monetise their messages and stories, so they can get paid for who they are. www.anna-simpson.com/book

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