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All Men Want is Sex?
How this belief impacts love and happiness of a woman
A bit provocative question… There are so many women who think this way, not realising how how damaging this belief is…
Many women who get burned with some men make an erroneous conclusion regarding all men. When you taste one bad apple though, you don’t make a sweeping generalisation that all apples are rotten.
Yet, it is easy for so many women to believe that all men just want their bodies, because those women “were used” by men before. And they have the proof of it: they either fall in love with players, who are not exclusive to them, or their partners get cold or disappear after having an intimate relationship…
Their reality supports their claim. Right? Wrong..
Our reality is simply the reflection of our beliefs.
For example, if a woman, let’s call her Mary, is absolutely convinced that all men want is sex, then she will be attracting only that type of men. Her outside reality will always reflect her inner belief. Mary’s belief won’t allow her to even spot some nice guys let alone connect with them. But unfortunately she will mistakenly think: that’s just the way things are; it is not about me, it is the reality of men out there.
